Let’s face it, sometimes you just don’t radiate cheer and festiveness during the holiday season. And that’s ok. With increased exposure to major stressors, like crazy family members, work deadlines, extra school demands, shopping marathons, drivers that desperately need to review their road skills (Since when did passing on the right become a thing?! It’s called a blind spot for a reason, folks—I literally can’t see you.), you’re bound to lose focus on why this is the most magical time of the year.
Fortunately, the Fitness-Focused (that’s you and me!) already possess the skills needed to cope with what some call, the holiday crush, or that feeling of immense pressure that sets in during the months of November and December. You know—pressure to have the most amazing decorations, the perfect meal, and the most thoughtful presents. To attend all the parties with a smile and the cutest outfit. Finish the year strong with your business. Not to mention keep it all together so your family has a special holiday. Whew! That’s a lot for one person to handle!
But, as I said, the Fitness-Focused already have the necessary skills to make it through the holidays and actually enjoy themselves. How? Simple. By incorporating the discipline and organization you use to plan your workouts to your holiday tasks, you can avoid the holiday crush and actually start the New Year with a smile on your face. Here’s what I’m talking about …
Decide What’s Most Important
You set fitness goals and decide in advance what is most important to you before you start your workouts. Take that practice and apply it to all the events and tasks ahead of you this holiday season. Ask yourself, what is the most important thing that I want to accomplish before the end of the year? Or, what is most important to me this holiday? What do I want to get out of all my holiday experiences? How do I want to feel as I head into the New Year (rested, fulfilled, energized, happy)?
When you prioritize your goals in the gym, you have something to work towards. Same with your life—if there is something you want to achieve before year’s out, be it less stress, more time with family, saying “no” to unimportant things, or even cooking more, make it a priority and work towards it.
Whenever I decide that something’s important, it’s crazy—I always figure out a way to achieve it. Always. Once I make the declaration that it’s important, my mind immediately shifts into figuring out all the ways I can get to my goal. But, you have to take the first step and decide your priorities. Declare them out loud to your friends and family or write them down. Whatever works for you—but take the first step and you’ll be that much closer to actually getting what you want.
Make Your List and Check It Twice
Super practical. Lists keep simple tasks organized so we don’t accidentally skip a step in our haste or hurriedness. (Go back to read a previous post about check lists here.) When you have 800 things to do it can be overwhelming. All the shopping, preparing and cleaning. No worries! Combine list-making with some of the lessons from The Compound Effect and all of a sudden life just got more manageable.
What is The Compound Effect? This book, written by Darren Hardy, literally changed my life. (Um, I am going to a conference where he’s speaking in February and I’m just a little bit excited about that!) This book is all about making small changes that “compound” to effect bigger more amazing changes. And it really works. If you are in the fitness industry you can attest, like I can, that just making one change to workout on a regular basis leads to making other smarter choices about eating and drinking. Then all of a sudden, you’ve lost weight or are stronger and people are commenting about how good you look. Anyways, get this book immediately, if not sooner. Read it. Implement just one suggestion—after all it’s called The Compound Effect. See what happens.
Exactly! Make your list of 800 things to do and then pick one or two to accomplish each day. Work back from your deadline to create a manageable schedule of accomplishments and you won’t feel so rushed. And chances are you won’t forget things—or if you do have a last minute “oops” you have plenty of time to take care of it.
I’m putting this into practice right now. Since I’m hosting our annual Pure Barre Winston-Salem and Pure Barre Clemmons holiday party at my new home this year, I have lots to do to prepare. And last week, I freaked out a little by all the work I had to get done. Now I’ve got my list and I’m working on just one or two things each day—starting with festive decorating. Can’t wait to share the party pics with you! Since I don’t have a lot of furniture, decorating is going to be strong this year. Haha!
Reward Yourself with Rest
This is the most important part of working out and living life, yet it’s the most neglected and overlooked. So sad. When you stay on track with your goals and tasks, give yourself time to rest. And reward yourself! After a hard workout, you need time to rest and recover, so you can do it all again. Same with a busy life—plan some downtime so you don’t get burned out and start to resent all of humanity.
The rewards don’t have to be big or expensive. Grab coffee with friends, enjoy a nice walk with your dogs, watch a show on Netflix—all of these things count as rest. Just make sure you use this time to do something you enjoy! Doing laundry doesn’t count—make sure your rest and reward time makes you feel rested and rewarded.
It’s amazing how those who prioritize their health and fitness are just better at winning life! Take those skills you’ve been using to motivate you through your workouts and apply them to your life this busy holiday season. There’s no need to get so frazzled that the holiday crush comes crashing down on you. No way! Take the time to decide what’s most important to you, make a list and just do a few things at a time, and finally reward yourself with rest and you’ll set yourself up to avoid some of the stress most people face during the holidays. Who knows, you might even enjoy yourself!
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